Do you spend time with your child? Read. A child needs both mother and father to engage and bond with him. The child forms a relationship with each separately. How does he/she do so? by spending one-on-one time with each parent. Test yourself - did you recently:
Why is it so important for fathers just like mothers? Spending quality time with our children is extremely important for their development (whether it is their brain development, social or emotional development). Parents are key players in supporting their child and creating a positive environment in which the child functions. We must find ways to slow down and slip in some memorable time that will let our children know that we love and care for them. Many children will let you know in their own “subtle” ways if they feel that you are not giving them the attention that they need. Some will withdraw while others will “act out.” You might see it when a child gives “lip” to a teacher, fights with another classmate or resorts back to behaviors that once got your attention like increased crying, throwing tantrums or even bed-wetting. This is a way to capture your attention, albeit often negative, so that they can enjoy “focused” time with you. Essentially the thought process is, “if I can’t get her attention by doing something good, I’ll get her attention by doing something bad.” Nobody wants that! So how can you find time when you don’t have any to spend? Here are some of the ideas:
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